Confidence for Women: 3 Cs That Could Change Everything.

I have been thinking about what is required to create change.  In my experience, change is easy because I know it as a process.  Yes, it takes hard work but there are necessary elements required to create change.  I have several opinions around this but simply put there are 3 Cs that could change everything!

“True life is lived when tiny changes occur.” ― Leo Tolstoy

Change.  You have to believe in it before it can happen.  AND really believe.  At my lowest of low, I knew I still had to do something, anything, to get out of the funk I was in.  It didn’t matter what I did, I knew that doing enough somethings would help me find the change.  Change.  In order to have it, you must believe it is possible.

“The only limit to your impact is your imagination and commitment.” – Anthony Robbins

Commitment.  So many of us try and think – well “I tried” once they fail or fall.  W

hen I look at my toddler, this little one that has eaten “it” so many times.  Some falls are harder than others but she is committed.  Committed to getting up and trying again. New Year’s Resolutions often fail because we never really think it will take a year to lose those extra pounds or make that change we “so” desire.  After a month, maximum!, we recognize that hard work is required and we stop and go back to our typical routine.  Being committed to the change is also half the battle.

“Invisible threads are the strongest ties” ―Friedrich Nietzsche

Connection.  As women, we are driven to connection.  The baker loves that others enjoy the cookies of her happy childhood.  The chef loves the feeling of bringing good food to a family.  The decorator loves the joy of bringing beauty into that couple’s home for them.  I love being able to give people peace and time as if it were tangible.  It’s the connection that we love however we find it.  

I invite you to think of these three Cs as you go on your day.  What connections are you making?  What is nagging at you to change?  And what will you commit to?  Adding any one of these things into your daily life will have a great impact.  Imagine if you added all three??

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